Let's get this whole thing about making observations vs. judgements straight. Making an observation is simply describing what you see. For example, if I see you steal something, then yes, I could make the observation that you are a thief right now. I'm not judging you. But I'd be judging you if I said, "A thief is all you're ever going to be." Now that would be wrong for me to say. I would be making the wrong assumption that you cannot change. But people can truly change for the better. Look at the Apostle Paul: he went from killing Christians to having a special encounter with Jesus and being converted. Then he went on to write about 2/3 of the New Testament. Yes, God can change hearts and minds. When we judge and are critical of others, we are forfeiting an opportunity to start a relationship, or build on an existing one with them. That forfeited relationship could have been the relationship in which we lead them to the love of Christ. Much love!
I just want to encourage and inspire as many people as I can for Jesus Christ.